Day 1 of 30

Posted: August 1, 2011 in 30 Day Challenge

Hello everyone!

I start the 30 day challenge today! I’m sure everyone was waiting for me to give the last and final memoirs but I decided to wait until Wednesday for that. I officially end work here on Tuesday so why not compile it all together? So there will be two posts on Wednesday, Day three and my last and final memoirs.

Let’s get on with the show, shall we?

Day 1 – Your current relationship, if single discuss how single life is.
Well. This is awkward.
I kid. But my life relationship wise is very …. Strangeish.
I’m in a grey area right now. I’m attached to him but we are not together.
Before you all judge me and call me the side chick or a home wrecker, listen.
We were together for a long time in school; he graduated and didn’t want to string me along in a long distance relationship. So we split up. Hardest break up ever.
But we love each other. We talk for four hours every night. We chat on BBM every freakin hour of every freakin day. When I got my Bella Naija job, he was the first person I called. Once we are in the same town, we can’t keep our hands off each other.
But we are both single. I have the choice to move on and meet other men.
It’s hard being single after being in a series of relationships for three years. My mind and body are accustomed to having a man there by default. I’m not used to being alone.
Which is why I decided that I will take a year off just for me. To find out the real Deola, what she likes and doesn’t like. I want to rediscover myself and my hobbies. Meet new people; smiling more and all that cliché stuff. Blogging more is part of it. Going for all these events also(The Naked Convos Rocked!!!!).
The catch – No men. No emotional attachments. No setting p or stuff like that. This is my year, no one else.
You see this can be hard when your heart is already locked on to someone who you can’t have.
Oh well.

P.S I will be posting each day’s post around 11 or 12. I don’t want to spam y’all TLs so be checking here for the new post. I will tweet the link and cc a few people. But I won’t cc a lot of people if I can help it.

Thank you for reading! See you all tomorrow!!!

  1. Mia Farraday says:

    Hang on, this is a different challenge to the one I’m doing…*pouts* Yours looks like more fun! Anyway, I’m here and shall be along for the ride. Good luck! x

  2. highlandblue says:

    So no P setting for a whole year?! My experience is that just when you say no more relationships, that irresistible other pops up on the horizon!!!! I’m subscribed to ur blog so no need to cc me!

  3. keLvin says:

    Thank God for MTN calls at 9t..
    Well another one has joined d 30 day challenge! Just make sure you meet up with ‘our’ own blog schedule.
    That will be all for now!

  4. ibetapassmynebo says:

    Nice…do we kno ds person??? Or is it my imagination that there was post about ds bfor..or maybe am just fnkn too much….oh well..
    See u tomoro

  5. ibetapassmynebo says:

    Doubt if my comment made it bfor…nways…was askin if we kno ds “person”…there was a post abt this…or mayb am just fnkn too much

    See you tomoro

  6. OOkpoechi says:

    Love eet

  7. @TheRealAdonye says:

    Absolutely loved this..
    Now we’re past that, can someone gist me about what went down at #TNC1? Ehn, Biko!!

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